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Re: What’s the difference?

Transa Voyeur — Tue, 08 May 2012 09:01:46 -0000

The problem with cuckolding is more on the female side. The male for some reason “re-wire” its way of thinking into this cuckolding mode. Sometimes it is a hidden secret from his wife or sexual partner for years. When they tell them most of the ladies think that cuckolding is a very weird behavior. Some will be willing to try out, but also but they with think of this as a very strange request, even much more strange than cheating. Only special few will engage on a long term cuckolding relationship. I think maybe there is an expected way of behavior expected by the wife and depending on how the husband cuckold behaves is what matters to its wife to remain living this fantasy. Although she knows it is good for her to have lovers, it is bad for her marriage to think of her husband as a cuckold. So here is my question for Jinxy. What would be an expected cuckolding behavior for the cuckold husband in order to keep his wife in the lifestyle?

Re: Doing things for one, but not the other.

Threquall — Sat, 05 May 2012 17:54:25 -0000

My girlfriend doesn't deny me and we often have a very normal sexual relationship much of the time. But my girlfriend definitely has an evil side that enjoys tormenting me. She, quite literally becomes very aroused humiliating me and making me suffer - mentally. Fortunately for her, I happen to get off on the torture. And it is torture.

About two years into our relationship she started telling me she was having sex with other men. This only happened during sex and she always insisted afterwards that it was play. However, her level of detail was so explicit and her oft-mentioned disdain for my abilities in the sack made the visual all too real for me. She loved how it tore me up. Slowly this verbal abuse made its way into everyday life. She would call me at work and tell me she was at another mans house having real sex with a "real man". Never got much work done on those days. She would tell me how she would have been masturbating all day knowing I was suffering. Told you she was evil.

It's important to note I don't really want to see my wife with other men. She knows this. But she would become so aroused torturing me with her stories that I guess it was inevitable she would seek to take it up a notch. And ultimately, she did. She did tell me she was going to do this to me and gave me the opportunity to stop it but I get off on what she does to me and I agreed.

Within a week of her announcement, she had a man in our bedroom. I had to watch and was not allowed to pleasure myself until he left and she granted me permission. Truthfully, I cried later. And several times more that week, but We were also both masturbating furiously at the thought of what happened. She relished recounting the event as we would masturbate and she absolutely got extremely aroused seeing me squirm.

It is now two years since she started bringing men home. It doesn't happen often but I usually know its coming because she will berate me pretty heavily leading up to the event. We have regular sex often but every couple months, she will get very verbal and condescending with me and then announce she is bringing a "real man" home and I will be forced to watch.

Re: What’s the difference?

junior — Fri, 04 May 2012 10:45:22 -0000

The definitions between cuckolding and hotwifing have been blurred a lot since the emergence of the cuckold phenomenon. A lot of people weigh in on what is their idea of the definitions of both, but, as said previously, they are technically the same thing.

Having said that, the practice seems to have broken up into two camps obviously. And there isn't a concrete boundary separating the two. I think the general consensus of modern day cuckolding vs hotwifing goes along the lines of what you have said. The cuckold scenario involves the wife in control of the situation and in control of her husband. The hotwifing scenario involves a married couple either on an even level as peers or a husband dominated level if only slightly.

Re: What’s the difference?

Thickready1974 — Wed, 02 May 2012 23:45:28 -0000

I don't think there is a black and white difference between cuckolding and hotwifing. Both have the same premise of the wife sleeping with another man or men that isn't her husband. There is no one fast rule that says if this is done then you are a cuckold couple or if that is done then you are a hotwife couple.

But in my endevours in chatting with and meeting up with and playing with other couples. One thing I have noticed with a cuckold couple. The cuckoldress tends to be more in charge over who she will sleep with. Also a cuckoldress would be more likely to find a lover and not ask her husband for his permission. While a hotwife might be more inclined to get her husbands approval.

Re: What’s the difference?

Russ — Tue, 01 May 2012 16:10:18 -0000

I don’t believe there is a difference, (6 one way half dozen the other) some folks don’t like the thought of being considered a “Cuckold” they equate it to homosexuality.
I believe Cuckoldry has many different levels where you land on the scale is up to you and your partner. From being simply Pussy whipped & wife making all the decisions to the very hard core extremes ……. So yes wife sharing is a form of Cuckolding like it or not

Re: What’s the difference?

scott Kelly — Mon, 30 Apr 2012 14:46:28 -0000

Hi Jinxy,

I'd say your spin on it is basically the same as ours. We think it's about the wife having freedom to explore her sexual desires with others while the cuck is expected to remain loyal to her and significantly chaste. There's a lot of room in there for individualizing the specifics.

With Em and I there is a significant amount of BDSM. We consider ours a wife-led-marriage further defined as Owner/property. Basically the power dynamic is tipped in her favor. We've worked continually toward that end for all of our twenty years together.

Like you, we are parents and so maintain a veneer of vanilla. But just beneath the surface, it's anything but.

Best,

scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse.

Re: Explicit.

Burt_on85 — Wed, 18 Apr 2012 23:42:57 -0000

I just discovered your sight recently and think you have some really great info. I think it might be easiest just to host on your own, if you have the resources that's great. If not, maybe request a clarification of the rules from the sites you are having problems with or perhaps find a site that allows more "explicit" material to be shown. I don't think you'll really be alienating potential viewers if you have the videos on a more adult oriented site, but I could be wrong. Thanks again for being awesome

Re: Explicit.

scott Kelly — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 22:42:23 -0000

Hi Jinxy,

I'm really sorry you're having this aggravation. We live in a society that is very conflicted about what being free really means.

Best,

scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

Re: Explicit.

thickready1974 — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 21:41:09 -0000

Welcome to the world where others can sensor you if they don't like the colour of your hair. And in some cases that is all it might have been for some test to complain.

You would probably get less hassle hosting things yourself. However even then your still not 100% protected from being sensored. The company that is hosting your servers could ban you. Hosting at home is possible however your ISP could ban you.

We live in a world where you are free to say what you want. Just don't say anything that will upset someone else.

Re: Explicit.

jinxypie — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 21:16:14 -0000

Hi Scott,

We do host them ourselves as well, we also post them on a number of other site to aggrigate the videos and to make sure they get out to as many people as possible, vimeo, dailymotion, myspace, youtube, etc all bring in viewers that wouldn't have seen it on my hosted sites. That's the reasoning behind it all..

Re: Explicit.

scott Kelly — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 19:33:34 -0000

Hi Jinxy,

When Blogger banned us back in September, 2009, we tried to find out how we had transgressed their "rules," but they never responded. We were angry and frustrated for a while and then decided to do it ourselves.

My vote, if it's not to expensive to do so, would be to host it yourself.

Best,

scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

Re: Sex vs Intimacy – Showdown!

scott Kelly — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 18:30:57 -0000

Hello Dame,

I'm not sure how to reply. With us, the communication channel is wide open. We've always been on the same wavelength and maybe we take our easy communication for granted. Maybe something as simple as a "timeout" just to be yourselves as a couple and then discuss what's working and what's not. Guys can be very opaque when it comes to expressing emotions, some more than others, but if you emphasize how your happiness is contingent on his and that if adjustments need to be made then that's fine, then go for it.

For Em and I, our mutual pleasure and happiness has always been the bottom line when it comes to kink. Do I like every little choice she makes or every little thing she does to me? Of course not. But if either of us wasn't happy, the other would know it quickly.

I how your uncertainty can nag at you. Even on the sub side, there are times when I wonder if Em is truly getting what she wants and that can easily impact my own ability to enjoy my side of the equation. The idea of the D/s thing as an equation isn't a bad way to think of it. If something is out of balance the equation doesn't work. You're in it together. If you're feeling unsure then, to my way of thinking, it's time to talk.

Head out for a nice night on the town or even a weekend. Reconnect as a couple and just talk it out.

Best,

scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

Re: Is cuckolding for small dicked white husbands only?

Kcarrie's Man — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 17:17:17 -0000

I am turned on about my wife being my own little porn star. Putting on a show for me with another man or even a couple men. I want to see her being pleased. It's a turn on. My cock is more than enough for her. It is 9 inches when fully hard erect and throbbing. It seems that this genre is vast and that there should be variations instead of one genre. I don't necessarily need to see a hung black guy with my wife, not that I am turned off to that, just that she gets to play the freaky whore and have some fun knowing I am watching her be a bad girl is all I enjoy in a fantasy. But this genre when type in "cuckold" ranges from forced bisexual, humiliation, (seems mostly) interracial, or a tied up submissive man watching his wife being taken by a "real" man or combinations of all the above. My fantasy as a "cuckold" with Jinxy's description of being just a tad above average size cock is just simply this.... I want to watch her being pleased. I want her to be the porn star. I want her to be the crazy, cock hungry slut and look at me while she sucks one and fucks one. I don't want her to humiliate me. I don't want her to demean me or force me into domination. I want to participate after first watching her go wild.

Re: Sex vs Intimacy – Showdown!

Dame — Sun, 08 Apr 2012 23:17:27 -0000

Are you happy? I worry he's not happy and won't tell me so because my happiness is more important than his own to him. My happiness within the lifestyle is completely contingent on our partnership in it. How do I know if he's starting to change his mind.. are there any red flags to look for? I trust him.. we are honest with one another.. but sometimes one can .. leave things out, you know?

Re: Sex vs Intimacy – Showdown!

PG King — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 21:27:01 -0000

I have a good question for you Miss Jinxypie. What about religion and cuckholding. I think that the people who have a problem with you and women like you, are religious people and people with old traditions. I grew up thinking that sex equals intimacy. How do you talk to people about your lifestyle and maintain a relationship with God.

I had someone ask me this question. I'd figure you can discuss this better than most people.

Re: Sex vs Intimacy – Showdown!

J Grill714 — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 12:27:52 -0000

Sex does dot equal intimacy no..but there is a intimacy that comes along with dominating your wife sexually and making her cum like crazy. We are a cuckolding couple as well and I love to see her get off with other men. But when he leaves I do whatever it takes to get her off at least once more. But I tend to be more of a dominant cuck.. I agree that all the little intimate things in life carry the most weight. And I wouldn't share those moments with any man those are mine alone. But I would encourage any cuck to take a little control once in awhile. When her bull leaves don't just clean her up.. get on top of her and give her everything u got. Put some effort into it and enjoy that pussy it is your wife after all. Show her how much u want her. Because your right the small intimate things are very important. But the way you feel when your eyes are locked and your inside her and she is looking up at you just before she cums .. that intimate feeling is unmatched in my opinion..give it a try see if I'm wrong.. jason

Re: Sex vs Intimacy – Showdown!

Rphil815 — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:58:54 -0000

Kind of a tough question for us. Yes, my wife and I are very close and very intimate even though we don't have sex. There is a sharing and love for each other that no one else can come close to.

At the same time for my wife there is some level of intimacy that goes along with her having sex. It is not love, but she is friends with her bulls, and how can you not have tender feelings for a guy who has given you a great time in bed.

Intimacy isn't defined by sex, but it does accompany it.

As a cuck I am jealous of the intimacy my wife shares with her sexual partners, but I wouldn't trade that for the love and caring and intimacy we have as life partners.

Re: Sex vs Intimacy – Showdown!

junior — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 10:52:43 -0000

Sex does not equal intimacy. We who have crossed over to the lifestyle have figured that out. But it is the most common misconception whenever the subject is brought up. I think the majority of people would practice either this or polyamory if they could understand the difference.

My wife shares no intimacy with the guy she fucks. They are friends who just happen to get each other off. On the other hand, I share very intimate moments with my wife when we make out, or just cuddle and look into each other's eyes. I haven't had penetrative intercourse with her in three months, but I know I'm the only one who is intimate with her.

Re: Sex vs Intimacy – Showdown!

scott Kelly — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 08:38:32 -0000

Hi Jinxy,

An excellent topic.

I do not equate sex with intimacy. I also don't equate the kind of sex my Owner and I have with the kind of sex she has with her lover. He is more Alpha whereas I am always submissive. Em is almost always topping me when we have some sort of sex and I don't get penetrative sex with her very often these days whereas, Darius, her current lover always expects her to be on her knees sucking his cock and eventually fucking her aggressively.

I often serve her orally and rim her anus. He only rarely goes down on her and then only very briefly to help arouse her and never rims her.

Em regularly pegs me with a large realistic black dildo. That would absolutely never happen to Darius.

All of the other day to day husband and wife intimacies that you mentioned are part of my relationship with Em.

There's no question that we're an extremely intimate couple and all the kink that we do together defines and secure that intimacy.

Best,

scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

Re: Hello? silence

David — Sun, 01 Apr 2012 20:24:07 -0000

I can seriously NOT believe this has ever happened to you Jinxy.

Re: Boring!

David — Sun, 01 Apr 2012 20:15:55 -0000

I really really really do NOT find teh Cuckolding 101 videos boring!

Re: Fetish Month Blog 5 – Fluffing.

Garyalvinrandorf — Mon, 19 Mar 2012 21:33:17 -0000

It is a real strong fantasy of mine to have 2 black bulls have me ready them to fuck my woman and then I suck the 2 bulls cum out of her pussy and ass. Yum yum.

Re: Hello? silence

PG King — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 22:56:40 -0000

Women like you intimidate men. Some men can't handle a confident women.

Re: What you see is what you get.

Ross Glengarry — Wed, 07 Mar 2012 00:21:59 -0000

Some people get offended by your self promotion but that is to be expected. As an experienced submissive with years of experience as a cuckold, I've encountered many people who just don't understand cuckoldry as a lifestyle choice. I'm a white collar cuck and Financier who is older so I've seen it all..... I don't question your sincerity but its also a business for you. I'm sure you make money off the website. Some people will question your motivations due to the commercialization of JINXYPIE but so what. Personally I like to see a cuckoldress talk about the emotional and psychological aspects of cuckolding so I read your website now and then. You don't seem to include your husband enough in your videos and that is my only criticism.

Re: Hello? silence

scott Kelly — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 23:41:33 -0000

Hi Jinxy,

If there's anything that Em hates about cuckolding it would have to be the process of meeting a guy online, doing the back and forth emails, etc. only to either be blown off or else, even worse, finally meeting the guy and being underwhelmed in one way or another.

From the other side, Darius, Em's steady guy, also has stories of disappointments and no-shows. Em and Darius have been seeing each other off and on for several years. There was a break while she was in school but now they're back together and I think they're enjoying the hot sex and the fun of cuckolding me even more than the first time around.

There have been a couple of monumental flakes and disappointments in the past so I guess we're happy to all three be on the same page and not have to worry about looking for greener pastures. As long as the three of us are happy, we can't see jumping back into search mode.

Best,

scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

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